Change...Really?

So today after TAKS (this pointless test Texas forces us to take -_-) instead of going to sleep I actually sat there thinking about what I had tweeted about yday which was do people really change? and my best explanation was people don't really change, they just discover a new side and they let that side overshadow their personality so people start assuming they have changed. I mean it's just not possible that something you have been for quite sometime, you can entirely change that. Like no matter what happens in your life you cannot completely take a 180 degree turn and start believing something opposite, can your opinions change? of course they can but its sort of like a deviation not a change. Our personality is sort of like Javert's perspective from Les Mis but not completely. Like his theory is that a person is either black or white, theres no shade of gray in their personality. He's born with what/who he is, well I don't exactly agree with him but where I do agree is that again you can't entirely change, its just somewhere in you that you hadn't discovered till now. What I don't understand is why people think its annoying and go all dramatic about it. I mean if someone is happy with who he/she is why the heck do you care? What is more important? A friends happiness or your satisfaction of a characteristic in their personality? I do understand you might miss that sometimes, but going all "OMG WHAT DID YOU DO TO MY OLD FRIEND" I mean just chill and go with the flow. Let things be the way they are meant to be at times. Not like your going against the nature is guna make any difference. My dad always says "its your world, but its not all about you" and hes right. You can't just want-expect everything around you to be the way YOU want it to be, sometimes you HAVE to compromise and give in.

Another thing, sorta related to changes. Why do girls act differently around guys..just to seek attention? thats just PATHETIC !! You know what they will think of you? A SLUT !! Yepp extremely pathetic. OH also if you think acting dumb in front of guys makes you look cute? think again cause it DOES NOT !!! It just really annoys me.

Step by Step

Walking down the aisle, with dreams in her eyes
And a nervous smile, her parents by her side
Wearing clothes a girl could only dream of
A glimpse of her soul, and a thought to herself
How can someone be so happy? Maybe it's a dream
For that special day, a girl waits all her life
That one special person by her side
She makes the vows worth her life
Closes a chapter, and starts afresh
A new life, new people and new ties
All of a sudden her world is flipped
From being the "daddy's lil girl"
To being his sweetheart
From being a princess of their house
To the queen of her palace
And from being the favorite sister
To a sister-in-law
Step by step she makes a journey
Leaving her whole life behind
And starting something very fragile
Hopes, dreams, excitement and love
She carries with her to fulfill her half
He reaches for her arm and fills the other
Promising to be her companion
Moving with her step by step.


P.S I know this is EXTREMELY clichéd BUT sometimes life gives you some lemons that aren't that sour at all !! :D

P.SS This is for someone very special hehe :)

Don't Stop Believingggg !!

"Stop dreaming, it's not reality" They Say
Well Dreaming is Living, fool
"But dreaming lets you fly like a free bird"
Then why would you cage yourself
"To prevent myself from falling"
Then you might as well stop breathing
"But thats like giving up"
You can't give up something you never tried
"But dreams equal disappointment"
Dreams give you hope
"False hope, and then you shatter"
You need to build something before it shatters
"But why put forth the effort?"
But why live at all if you're going to die?