Change...Really?

So today after TAKS (this pointless test Texas forces us to take -_-) instead of going to sleep I actually sat there thinking about what I had tweeted about yday which was do people really change? and my best explanation was people don't really change, they just discover a new side and they let that side overshadow their personality so people start assuming they have changed. I mean it's just not possible that something you have been for quite sometime, you can entirely change that. Like no matter what happens in your life you cannot completely take a 180 degree turn and start believing something opposite, can your opinions change? of course they can but its sort of like a deviation not a change. Our personality is sort of like Javert's perspective from Les Mis but not completely. Like his theory is that a person is either black or white, theres no shade of gray in their personality. He's born with what/who he is, well I don't exactly agree with him but where I do agree is that again you can't entirely change, its just somewhere in you that you hadn't discovered till now. What I don't understand is why people think its annoying and go all dramatic about it. I mean if someone is happy with who he/she is why the heck do you care? What is more important? A friends happiness or your satisfaction of a characteristic in their personality? I do understand you might miss that sometimes, but going all "OMG WHAT DID YOU DO TO MY OLD FRIEND" I mean just chill and go with the flow. Let things be the way they are meant to be at times. Not like your going against the nature is guna make any difference. My dad always says "its your world, but its not all about you" and hes right. You can't just want-expect everything around you to be the way YOU want it to be, sometimes you HAVE to compromise and give in.

Another thing, sorta related to changes. Why do girls act differently around guys..just to seek attention? thats just PATHETIC !! You know what they will think of you? A SLUT !! Yepp extremely pathetic. OH also if you think acting dumb in front of guys makes you look cute? think again cause it DOES NOT !!! It just really annoys me.